On April 2, 1994, My husband Rux was 39, and I was 37. Neither of us had been married before.

My brothers, and brother-in-law, had always kidded me about "when" I was going to get married...about trying to find me a husband.

We were married on the front steps of our house, with my niece, Sarah as the flower girl, and my twin nephews, Jon and Bryant, as the ring bearers, and my sister, Suzy as the mattron of Honor. My brother, Grayson was "giving" me away, l.o.l. , and Mike, my brother-in-law , played the recorder with the music.

My older brother Greg, was running the video recorder, and as soon as we said "I do", you could here Greg say to Mike, "We got him now, he is on tape, He can't get away now!"